STORY 19: YOUNG MARRIED STUDENT

The age factor is not decisive Maturity is not determined by the age factor. Although the two couples who decide to marry has entered early adulthood, but have not reached the stage of its development stage. So what happened is the emergence of a different way of thinking. Such as how to divide their time between family and friendship. When couples are emotionally immature stage of development, then he will try to always be near his friends. Because he did not want to leave the stage to have fun. So, he could not yet fully committed to becoming a father or mother. So no wonder if this will trigger a conflict, because when a person carry out the role and duties will affect their relationship. Divorce As already known the emotional development stage of the immature, while the condition continues then it is likely both parties will give up. Divorce had become an attractive option. Preparation In addition to the maturity factor, preparations were noteworthy. This means that should be ready and mature consideration of steps to be taken. If the only reason to avoid sin, it is a step in the most superficial. Because more than that, marriage is a sacred bond in which two people who decide are bound in a marriage are responsible for each building so that eventually created a harmonious family in line with expectations. Family support A marriage will not be realized without the support of the family. For that, you have to pocket the blessing of the family. Because marriage is a bond of infinite time, so parents and family support is needed here so there will be no surrender in the middle of the road conditions ..